Emotional Energetic Displacement
Emotional Energetic Displacement
Why must this new process be an experiential process as opposed to the normal & more comfortable intellectual dissection? Thoughts generate an energetic emotional charge, like a paddle through water in a pond creates ripples. Thoughts & emotions are situated on the same circuit therefore one immediately influences the other. This is easy to identify in our pets & ourselves & how this charge gains momentum & expands into our environment, touching everything it reaches. We may see some indications of nervousness in our pet through subtle avoidance or uneasy behaviour to begin with & as their confidence in the situation dwindles, these subtle indicators become more pronounced, erratic & gain speed. We’ve all had experiences in our lives where an interaction with another human has begun with a simple annoyance & has escalated into our own physical indicators of emotion becoming faster & more pronounced.
When we see a high stressed individual, what are the common factors that tell us the level of emotional unbalance in this person’s life? In a simple word; movement. A person not feeling overwhelmed by stress & anxiety can sit or stand comfortably relaxed & still, regardless of the situation they find themselves in. A person influenced by unbalanced emotions can hardly sit, cannot sit still & displays avoidance behaviour like our pet’s do. These pets will always be engaged in some type of movement. The person wants to leave the situation they find themselves in to get away from the discomfort of the individual, crowd or situation they find themselves in. The longer they feel the discomfort, the more their confidence dwindles & causes an increase in movement, thereby creating more ripples in the pond. They will begin to display more pronounced &/or new physical indicators of unbalanced emotions such as, chewing fingernails or lips, playing with hair, pacing, shaking of a limb or excessive scratching or touching of particular body parts. How many horses & dogs display these behaviours?
What do we typically see in these types of situations? The person leaves the vicinity of the large crowd or conflict with a particular individual for example, & feels an immediate sense of relief at some level, but has the root cause of the problem been solved? How many times have we taken our pet away from an uncomfortable situation to put them at ease? Although there is a momentary reduction of stress & anxiety, being placed in a similar situation at another time will cause the unbalanced emotions to flood back in & create larger ripples during the next encounter. For some, just the thought of returning to a similar situation is enough to cause the unbalance to rush forward & create instant adrenaline production that will in turn cause deeper avoidance behaviour & more dramatic physical response ripples.
If a person makes a derogatory comment to us for example, at first we may not have been clear as to the meaning or intentions behind the words. As we spend time analyzing what was said, we can feel the energetic charge begin to build through our emotions & then expand into our motions. We will habitually blame the person responsible for the words, however the words & their supposed meanings are not responsible for how they make us feel. How we choose to perceive the situation & the resulting emotional attachments through our excessive mind chatter are responsible for the fall out of the situation. The new horse or dog that is displaying enormous emotional ripples isn’t due to the person who had the animal previously, as we often like to deflect & point blame, it’s due to us not listening to the animal since they arrived in order to help them achieve b balanced state.
When we have a deeply embedded emotional imbalance that’s redirected & displayed physically such as a dog who chews it’s bedding for example, removing the articles to eliminate opportunities to shred, will not solve the problem. This will work only if it’s a new behaviour with minimal energetic emotional charge behind it. The level of emotional charge will dictate how long it will take & the amount of repetition needed to solve the problem, by conventional standards. This is where the belief that long periods of repetition are necessary for changing behaviour & this is correct by normal methods used to change behaviour. What we fail to realize is just how much we influence not only the creation, but energetic escalation & deeper retention of these unbalanced emotions. By our own habitual tendencies to avoid discomfort, we teach our pets how to avoid discomfort & allow this energetic charge to grow larger & larger, burying deeper & deeper into the cells of the body. See “Deeper physical effects of unbalanced emotions” article for more info.
If we look at conventional forms of therapy for humans, we can discern that they aren’t very effective on the whole & they are often combined with the use of drugs to try to lower the energetic emotional charge that has accumulated. They often employ ideologies of discussion & bringing forward the sources of discomfort in an attempt to better understand & eliminate them. While the theories may have a sound basis, these methods employ escalating the excessive mind chatter that is already present. If mind chatter is responsible for the creation & escalation of the energetic emotional charges that result in unbalance, then maybe it’s worth looking at the opposite approach.
Parameters has proven beyond a doubt that conventional methods of balancing the energetic emotional charge are unnecessary & a reset into a neutral charge is possible in less than one hour. How is this possible? By allowing unobstructed expression of the energetic charge while eliminating the mind chatter. This is the key that unlocks all of the doors. Why must this new process be experiential instead of the normal intellectual dissection? Because our habitual excessive thought processes will not allow us to drop what we know & accept the proof of what we’re seeing to be true.
We all want the answers handed to us on a silver platter because this is what the educational system has taught us is necessary in order to succeed & to be accepted, but this is of no benefit to us in this new process. We must find the answers ourselves by listening to our pets & experience the ah ha or lightbulb moments that accompany these new understandings, or things will never change. The lightbulbs rewrite the programming. Without these lightbulb moments, the energy created by these thought processes will not dissipate, be eliminated or replace the current programming. In my experience, a noticeable reduction in energetic emotional charge can be physically felt & is often accompanied by yawning.
In the case of a dog who chews it’s bedding through expression of a deeply embedded emotional charge, eliminating any possibility of items that can be chewed will not stop the behaviour. Because the emotional charge is so intense, the energy will be displaced & redirected into a new expression. If they don’t begin to chew other things such as a cage, the walls or floors, they will develop a new habit such as excessive barking, chasing their tail or any other number of possibilities. We must begin to recognize that unbalanced emotions are responsible for unwanted behaviour, to begin to listen to our pets when they are clearly telling us they need our help to return to balance & understanding that unbalance will always gravitate to balance like a magnet. Are we willing to become that balance that our pets need, or are we more interested in self-serving habitual comfort zones?